Showing posts with label fights. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fights. Show all posts

Thursday, 10 November 2011

Disappointments, fights and finally a love letter !


              We missed the Monday red! Inevitably the public holiday had to come on Monday.. I had been working like crazy cleaning up the house after it got painted. Choosing the color, thinking up combination can be fun but not inhaling the smell of primer and definitely not cleaning up the mess thereafter. Overworked, over harassed as I was even the much awaited Monday turned out to be hectic. Disappointment!!!!! 
              Added to it a lot of other things happened which made me super upset. I called up S to talk and he was sleeping away to glory which infuriated me even more. Missed call pe missed call was what I did and he switched off! Load the guns and get ready for the fight! 
              The next day was a disaster. I sooo hate fighting specially the energy draining ones! Adding insult to injury S decided to be busy and not fight back even though I was shouting my guts out. So that left poor little me whiling away sulking and waiting for a chance to bite. Quite literally !!
              Finally he called back with a calm tone (Jeez I tell you how thanda that is to my boiling blood). I went on complaining about how horrible he was and how he should be with the other girl (imagined by me and supported by him and then actually thought to be true by me) and not talking to me. Somewhere in between the whole scene he found something funny and started laughing. *Change of topic* and I suddenly lost what I was fighting about and he started pulling my leg and that pretty much ended it because no matter what I did I couldn't get that gussa back and grinned like an idiot. 

                      
    
This was what happened with exact same sentence but over the phone :) :) 

So the imaginary girl was forgotten after he promised that he was just playing along with my imaginations and there was no one other than me.
Then while I was home browsing, suddenly a tubelight lit in my mind, "What about the phone switching thing that initially annoyed me? Uski bharpayi kaun karega?" 
So I went over to my mail and emailed him with the first thing that came into my mind, "I WANT A LOVE LETTER ELSE I M NOT FORGETTING THIS FIGHT!!" 
     Seriously I didn't  have a love letter except the one someone wrote in school and on confrontation told that "mazak tha" :P :P 
     I remember reading those "personal letters" in those "art of writing letter" book that all of us refer for English letter writing during school and think of writing and receiving. Alas ! Our times are different and love is a mere text away (read 160 characters).
      
        To be true, I half expected S won't write the letter and simply let it pass. Imagine my joy when I saw the letter duly written and lying in my inbox!! Now I know of people who write love letters with Copy Paste from google and some even get it written from others ( I have written one for a friend :P :P khi khi khi) 



        It was the most original, true and hilarious letter ever read by me :D :D To top it all, it was written in my mother tongue ( alright OUR mother tongue) Tulu .. 
        I wouldn't translate the letter because that would steal the charm of it ( super cute :D :D ). I couldn't help smiling and laughing at the cuteness and funniness of it. "A letter can surely end a fight" 
        If you think the story ended here then WAIT.. Later at night while we were skyping he brought out the fact that I used a bad word for him during the fight. Yes anger can make you do such things. :( 
        Then started the drama. He acted as me and I acted as him. While I was trying to persuade him to forget the thing, he playfully started acting like me. Right from the bloated face, to pulling of hair in frustration (yes I do that, now stop gaping), to asking for silly things. Everything acted to the perfect T. 
        Finally I could bring back peace with some negotiations (Don't ask!). Its not for nothing that I say guys are easy to please.. :) 
        
        For you S, I loved your line "You are the rasgulla of my life.. I can't imagine my life without you". My filmy sweetheart I can't stop reading that letter! I have it byheart now!!

P.S: Coming soon "How to punish your boyfriend"



Friday, 29 April 2011

love and fights...

                 Everything isn't sugary (come on, too much sugar is bad for health) in love.. Pyaar me jhagde ka tadka toh lagna hi chahiye!! Ok the nokh-jhok type of trouble doesn't last longer than 2 hours in my case (unless the other half is too busy to call and make up)..
                 Both of us have flaring tempers and when the ignited neither relents without fighting out! It is not in my genes (half of them are anyway in constant battle with the other) to give in on matters I feel strongly about and S would rather live in his SPACE than bow down to my demands!! I tell you life is tough when we cross each other's territory!! My otherwise calm and cool S turns into a storm and only the resilient M can soothe it then!!
                  The resilient M is the M who gets tired of arguing and misses her "sweet nothings" with S..
We could create record for the variations in fights we have on the same topics !!
        I used to get worried about why we fight so much? Give stupid compatibility tests online( poor scared me) which used to return terrifying 10% result... Well if that were the case, then we sticking out for each other for so much time is nothing short of a miracle!!
        Later I realised that such fights are a pattern in every steady couple... ( anything more than 6 months is steady in this case)
       I know this couple on twitter which argues and rants publicly.. Threatens to divorce (although they aren't married....!!), reverts to jealousy( the guy meets other girls..err his friends he says... when his gal is angry), declares break up ( no one takes it seriously now!) , then the guy writes some love note or quotes, woos the girl back and everything is hunky dory!!
      This couple has been together for 6 years now!!!


ME and S have enough fights to our credit and currently we are in "PEACE"...

We have had some ugly altercations and even after he comes back to me always there are things which are still working well..

The fact that he says "I want to be out of this relation" when he is too angry and I am scared  not scared.. I can always have this faint hope of him being there for me..

It is frustrating when he switches off his mobile ( the worst he can do to keep me off him) and I do don't think "He wants someone else in his life now"..

It is crazy how such probabilities pop into my mind and I spend sleepless nights, wetting my pillow with tears, burning eyes until the pill I take for splitting headache puts me off to sleep... The next day I wake up with swollen eyes and a fluffy face...

I toss some coin to decide if I should call him ( if the answer is in negative I do best out of three...somehow always works in the positive) and when he calls back (yeye!! ) I keep silent with only yes or no and other one words ( though I m dying of stomach ache due to not telling him the latest update in my life) and the guy has clearly had a memory loss of last night ...

Sometimes there is an e-card waiting for me which says "sorry" and sometimes it is just the man himself telling tales to make me laugh.. Somehow things fall into place and soon we are giggling khi khi khi...

I remarked once that "S have you noticed how much more love is there in our relation after a day of fight??  kisine sach hi kaha hai jhagde se pyaar badhta hai " ( yeah we get all filmy sometimes :P)

And he is quick to add "Aise pyaar nahi badhana hai..I hate fighting"

:P :P That's my practical but cute S...
      

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